If you've been deeply hurt by another person, let me frankly ask you this simple question: "Why in the world do you want to get back with him or her?" I've seen it happen too often. Someone is hurt in a relationship and is eventually wooed back into it by the other's charm, wit and words. You know what soon thereafter happens: you're hurt again. Sometimes it occurs several times over.
So I want to take this moment to give you some hope. You're more valuable than that! Your life is too meaningful to continue to be abused! You are a unique child created in God's image. You don't have to put up with it anymore!
Don't allow that person to control you anymore. Don't allow that person to hurt you anymore. If he/she has hurt you badly, wrongfully, let me ask you this question again: "Why in the world do you want to get back with him or her?"